I gain about 45lb extra pound since I had menopause. For some reason, I gain my desire want to eat, but sametime I wish not to move as much as I used to. My daughter bought me a membership of the Bay Club in Manhatan Beach[high end] with a lot of money for me to exercises daily. I will start from today for the money's worth. All the members are young and old, but mostly young yappis in the water front city. There are some oriental lady's too.Young whte girls toll and slim legs, but in details their hands and feet are like chicken legs, ugly, and not much feminin to my eyes, where oriental girls short but all extremities are like new born baby, cute, no wrinkles, tiny over all like girly. I am thankful that I am what I am like cute oriental woman. No one can not change of my self image. American man is charm, not because of their 3rd leg inbetween their legs, but gentlemanship. Korean man should have focus on how they can respect, and treat equal the woman, not as their servant. When I see the Korean man treat his wife with kindness and care deeply, that is sexy to me more than anything else. Get out of inferiority complex, and learn more how to treat better the woman. I am in hurry. I set the goal that I will loose the 20 lb by the end of June.