gf =grand father, save the typing time. My gf was living with widow who was married before and gf never had wife. In Korean tradition, man who never married, cannot marry to widow, because society never recognize them as husband and wife. So the widow arranged my gf marriage to young virgin girl[ my grand mother the 1st wife] and become as 2nd wife. 2nd wife had 2 daughters from my gf at this time, but they were not claimed to family tree until my mother was born, then those two old girl registered under the my mom as sister.[I thought it is craze system]. My grand had only 4 daughters, 2nd wife had 5 daughters, so my gf had reason to receive the 3rd wife from the farm who was uneducated and much younger of two grand mothers, arranged by 1st and 2nd wife. 3rd also keep giving daughters of 5, no son, until 2nd wife had son and right after 3rd wife also give my gf son. So total of 14 daughters and 2 sons out of 3 wife. Today you and I know that gender of child is not determind by woman, but man's sperm, those days they did not know, so man has great chance to change new sex partner by right. my gf had rule that all the girls only should have elementary education, because if girls get more, they will make troubles, and must get mary when they were 16 years old. No matter how my gf favored my mom because she was good looking and 1st child by birth certification, she must complianed with his rule, so she married to my father who was the elementary school teacher st the Japaness control. I will cont. to next story