Each human being lives very unique style of life within how she and he perceives the world. No two human being has same point of view in life. that put us the wisdom that I made the my own rule that I go by: rule #1, I CANNOT change anything, or anybody, even my own kids, but MYSELF. #2,as much as I believe that I am good and loving, respectful human being, I believe all other human being [ good and bad according to my perception only], I will respect them too, because they have right to live their way too. #3 I want live happy, joyful, beautiful, healthy life, then I must put the effort to the most important thing... what are they ? Surely it is not the change other people's life style, how they should think..., because it is simply waste of my golden time. The life is to ride the bicycle, because one must moving forward continuesly, if stop moving, you fall to the ground. I have weekly , monthly 1 yearly, 5 year goal. one must fully accupy oneself with good things, productive, loving , possitive things, so no time for the other side. for example; I am going to lose 5lb in October wt. I go to church on sunday to cleans my mind and to be a better human being. I visit the person who is in less desirable situation give $ 100. once a month and buget not going out eating 2 times less... I have another side business beside my profession, so two night meeting... You see how I live, busy engage with good things only. cont. nest...