Jesse Raphael was a popular TV talk show in 1980's I watched
from time to time. One episode showed retired old couples bickering each other, on who did what to whom how, when, where, etc.,
endlessly, in low voices without facing each others, or looking into the eyes of each other. You know how it goes. Or you may
have your own such experiences. I feel a lot of this goes on here in Yeol-Dang as well.

I just came back from my one-meal a day dinner alone because my
wife left with her fishing partener yesterday to Pacific Ocean
beach for several days to annual camping and fishing fun.
Red-tail surf perch, 2 to 4 lbs, is a Do-Mi in siverly color,
one of the best Sa-Shi-Mi, right on the beach with Cho-Jang or
Wa-Sa-Bi, UUUM, UUUM! Yami! Have you ever tried yourself something like this? When they come back home, ice coolers 60 qts. each are full of these. Some are frozen, half-dried, or
made into my favorite Ham-Gyong-Do Shik-He, instead of using
traditional flounder fish; meatier and far better tasting.

I talk about my personal life a little here, to emphasise that
"Life is what you make of it". I forgot who said it.
In stead of getting trapped in bickering on small annoyances
that you cannot avoid as long as you live among people, find ways to put what you know into practice, to make yourself happier and others as your allies, instead of making them mortal
enemies from small annyances. We all know annoyances last and last, but they are small things like in Jessie's shows, meaning
they are easy to overcome once, twice,...., finally they become new habits. Ref."Happiness Advantage" by Shawn Achor. Good luck,
and best wishes. I'm only a synthesizer.